“美丽心灵的永恒阳光”这个名字出自英国18世纪大诗人亚历山大·蒲柏（AlexanderPope，1688-1744）的一首诗《艾洛伊斯致亚伯拉德》（Eloisa toAbelard）。而蒲柏的这首诗又是根据法国12世纪时的一个爱情悲剧创作的。这首诗曾经用在查理·考夫曼早期的一部电影《成为约翰·马尔科维奇》Being John Malkovich (1999)。

 

亚历山大·蒲柏的诗歌：

How happy is the blameless vestal's lot!

The worldforgetting, by the world forgot.

51.Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to share and some to love.
 
52.It’s better to try hard to love urself more than to wait someone to love u. if today u don’t like urself more than yesterday, so what’s the meaning of tomorrow?
 
53.You can make fortune by ways that u don’t like, and can get cured by medicine that u don’t believe, but u can never feel happy from someone you don’t love.
 
54.Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely on him; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him.
 
55.An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
 
56.The so-called freedom is the reason to be alive. If u easily give up life, then u can never find freedom.
 
57.When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him.
 
58.If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
 
59.The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory.
 
60.In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.
 
61.If someone loves none, he may fall in love with anyone around him.
 
62.Is there anyone who hasn’t suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when u look back, u suddenly realize that it’s always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it’s very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the love.
 
63.I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year.
 
64.Love doesn’t exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding.
 
65.It’s often said that u will have the same life as the person u find. Therefore, different choices make different endings.
 
66.We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
 
67.I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of.
 
68. Every girl was once an angel without tears. When she meets the beloved boy, she gets the tears. And after she cries, she falls into the earth. Therefore, every boy shall be nice to his girl, coz she once gave up the whole heaven for the boy.
 
69.You don’t need someone to love in secret. We just stand by the river and feel sad when seeing the shadow in the water and thought that we r falling love with someone.
 
70.It’s not us to choose the opportunity, but it’s opportunity that decides us. When the opportunity comes, all we can do is to take this challenge. Don’t say that opportunities never come. It came but u just don’t willing to give up the things u own.
 
71.Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
 
72.Warmness is luxury—which is reflected by deep cold and hurt.
 
73.Good love makes u see the whole world from one person while bad love makes u abandon the whole world for one person.
 
74.I love you not for the things u would bring to me but to accept everything u could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, u will still be my side.
 
75.The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities.

26．人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。
26.People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love. 　　

27．原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟。
27.The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread. 　　

28．爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
28.Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future. 　　

29．你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。
29.Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing. 　　

30．当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是 我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。
30.When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in ur memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which u may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different. 　　

31．两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。
31.When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. But why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss by myself. 　　

32．缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。
32.Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, u r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally. 　　

33．自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫作恋爱。
33.The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names this as falling in love with each other. 　　

34．人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。
34.The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we get wrong answers. 　　

35．当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。
35.When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you. 　　

36．女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。
36.The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to have nothing inside. 　　

37．我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。
37.We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father. 　　

38．离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
38.If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. 　　

39．并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。
39.It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability. 　　

40．寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。
40.Loneliness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have no one beside u but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone. 　　

41．在友情的盆栽中培养爱情不是件容易的事，但是在长出爱情的盆栽里培养友情是件更困难的事。如果掏空了我心中的土，是否能培养出过去那种友呢？
41.It's not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had. 　　

42．如果花开了，就喜欢；如果花落了，就放弃。陪你在路上满心欢喜是因为风景，不是因为你。
42.If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany u merrily for the sake of scenery not for you. 　　

43．千万别交一个无法替代的情人，否则你就会成为那个可以替代的情人。情人之间的自由就如同过期的支票，你可以继续拥有，但却无法兑现。
43.Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easily replaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can own it forever but can not turn it in cash. 　　

44．我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。
44.I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. 　　

45．当我们满怀喜悦和惆怅的成长已经成为一种可以被讲述的故事时，我们发现我们从未遵守过任何一个诺言，但我们真的真心真意相爱过。
45.When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We find that we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time. 　　

46．我安慰自己，虽然在最底最底的位置，看不到花儿绽放是的艳丽，然而却总不会错过花瓣飘落时在风中悠扬飞舞的浪漫。
46.I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing now flowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall down and fly in the wind. 　　

47．所有的爱情故事都有相同之处，在我生命的某一时刻我也经历过这些，然而我已记不得这些。我所记得的是，爱是以另一个男人的形式，带着新的希望，新的梦想重回我心中。
47.All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have that experience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is that love returns with another man bringing new hopes to me. 　　

48．曾经有机会目睹他最软弱最糟糕的时刻，你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这段爱情才能够长久一些。
48.Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but u still can accept his defects and keep this as secret. Then ur love will last longer. 　　

49．我相信了你编写的童话，自己就成了童话中幽蓝的花。
49.I believe in the fairy story u wrote for me, and myself becomes the faint flower in the story. 　　

50．幸福的关键不在与找到一个完美的人，而在找到任何一个人，然后和他一起努力建立一个完美的关系。
50.The key for happiness is not find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him. 　

1.希望和信任是蜥蜴的尾巴，即使被切断，但它们还会再长出来。
1.Hope and trust is the tailer of a lizard  , which can reproduce even after being cut off.　

2.宁可失败在你喜欢的事情上，也不要成功在你所憎恶的事情上。
2.To lost in something you love is better than to win in something you hate. 　　

3.一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
3.One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone. 　　

4.幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
4.Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It's about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love. 　　

5.爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。
5.Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last. 　　

6.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
6.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you. 　　

7.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。
7.Love makes man grow up or sink down. 　　

8.举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
8.If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love. 　　

9.许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。
9.Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love-same transparent but easily broken. 　　

10．我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
10.We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone. 　　

11．一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
11.One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love. 　　

12．人的一生，有两种遗憾最折磨人：一是得不到你心爱的人；二是心爱的人得不到幸福。
12.During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don't get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy. 　　

13．生活在没有的你的世界，比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦，你知道吗，对我而言，你是任何人都无法取代的。
13.To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart? 　　

14．你的诞生带给我希望，而我希望带给你幸福。
14.Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness. 　　

15．我将暴风般的爱情藏在心底，那是为了不给对方任何心理压力，我的爱情越是珍贵，相对地，也越珍惜别人的爱情。
15.I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure. The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others. 　　

16．爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力。
16.If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness. 　　

17．你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得越清楚，我曾经听人说过，当你不能再拥有的时候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘记。
17.The more you wanna know whether you have forgotten something, the better you remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget. 　　

18．暗恋一个人的心情，就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子，永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的，但却真心而倔强的等待着。
18.To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly. 　　

19．女性在所有礼物中，认为花朵最有价值的原因：是因为男性在送花给女性的时候必须克服那种把花拿在手上走在街道上的羞涩感觉。
19.The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among other gifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowers in streets before sending them to girls. 　　

20．只有跟你在一起的时候我才是活着的，我一个人的时候，就连最耀眼的太阳也失去光彩！
20.I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance. 　　

21．不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。
21.I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are from different waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if I get close to you. 　　

22．当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。
22.When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you. 　　

23．被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。
23.How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like? If you wanna answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises. 　　

24．年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
24.When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind. 　　

25．什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。
25.What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love.

纪念０７／０９／０７
 
当距离刚将我们又拉近的时候
却将要面对离别
这一刻
我们不哭
理解　宽容　
让我们更坚信未来的路
 
谢谢你们总是陪我分享
不能跟情人说的话
谢谢你们总是替我收藏
不能跟情人说的话
 
我不会多说
因为
回忆已深深烙在我们心上
关心也早已心照不宣
 
我只希望
朋友
在那边好好照顾自己
即使我们在各自的舞台上发光
我们也只有转身的距离  

最近居然又迷失了！

首先，恭贺初中同学要结婚了。其次，再次提醒一下自己已经是阿姨级人物了。然后，羡慕一几在工作的同学们。哎，我的事业和爱情咋都没着落乃，该死的学习，消耗脑力也像在燃烧热情，真不知道当初对英语的感觉去了哪里，难道真的是只读英语给读傻了？这星期写小结，厚着脸皮说自己有点进步，其实自己心知肚明，从1000到300。

记性也不好，刚想到要说的话又忘了要写什么。多喝水有助于记忆力，可是我偏偏是个不吸水的动物。因此，皮肤也不好。

一个学医的同学居然问我TOFLE和GRE的区别，居然还是个没有出国打算的人。那我在干些什么呢？游走于许多职业中，不知如何选择。教师证！导游证！。。。。。到底什么适合我啊？

有没有人知道“朋友”的真正定义？查了一下现代汉语词典，说是相互交情的人。相互？那单方面的用心做朋友，应该就不能称为是朋友了吧。总之每个人心中都有一杆称，自己去衡量。

交情！当然不是单单的认识而言。那怎样才算交情呢？我个人认为，重在情字，如果没有情，何去交呢？曾遇到两个朋友，因为一个小小的玩笑而闹不和。可笑！然后当无事发生过，言归于好。可能吗？

今天接了一通电话，打了一通电话，仅仅两通电话就让我分清了她们的差别。孰友孰非自然就心知肚明。

我讨厌一种人，一种遇到事情过分对你好的人。他们不是朋友，他们是用友。他们带着私利靠近你，目的为了利用你。今天我开了一辆车，看到一辆车，也看清了这样的面目。

我相信，真正的朋友，尽管不在一个屋檐下，仍会让你感到那份真诚与情愫。